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The Five Financial Life Moments

An interactive worksheet to help you listen for what's really happening in a member's life — then find the right solution together. Fill it in below, and download your completed PDF at the end.

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Get started

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Reflect

Before you begin

Take a moment to think about your last five member conversations. How many involved a member sharing something happening in their life — not just completing a transaction?

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Complete the sentence

Key idea

People don't come looking for . They come because is happening.

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As you watch the video

The Five Financial Life Moments

Write one or two examples of each life moment you've experienced with members, and the possible financial needs that come with it.

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Buying

New homes, vehicles, big purchases.

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Moving

Relocation, new city, new chapter.

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Growing

Marriage, kids, education, career.

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Recovering

Loss, medical, job change, setback.

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Planning

Retirement, legacy, long-term goals.

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Listen for the life moment

Write down phrases members might say that signal one of these moments.

I've been looking at...
We're thinking about...
I just got...
We've been trying to...
I'm worried about...
I can't believe how much...
My payment is...
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Fill in the blanks

People rarely wake up thinking, “I need a .”

They wake up thinking, “.”

Our role is not simply to process .

Our role is to recognize .

The best financial conversations begin with instead of assumptions.

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Conversation starters

Check the questions you could naturally use during a member conversation.

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Think about this

My car payment is almost $900 a month.

Instead of immediately talking about rates, what questions could you ask first?

Our daughter starts college this fall.

What opportunities might exist?

We've been putting off remodeling the kitchen.

What questions would you ask?

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Reflection

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Over the next five business days

This week's challenge

Remember

People don't come to the credit union looking for products. They come looking for help.

When we understand what is happening in someone's life, the right financial solution becomes much easier to find.